Tuesday, April 20, 2010

its been a while but i am back.
life is so funny. i try to plan everything out but God plan is often so different especially the timing.
According to Livi's plan, I should be happily married with at least 2 kids. Wow!
But today, although I have my moments where I wish that cute baby in the stroller is mine, I know my current state is God's best for me. God knows I am not ready for my better half right now because I am not my best and I would run him off with all this stuff God still has to work out in me.

But do believe when God gets through with me, I am going to be something else, watch out!!

As some of you already know, I meet the most interesting men. God has given me a great sense of discernment and I know pretty quickly if this is a God fearing man and if I think there is something there. But do you know having discernment is pointless if you do not heed to the warning. This is where I am today. I hear God saying nope this is not the one but I still proceed like something is going to happen overnight and he will be come the one.

Ladies I need your help. I am tired of spending time that i can not get back on men (people) that are not contributing to my life purpose. People who do not know there own purpose so how can i expect them to help me to get where I am trying to go. I need to learn how to walk away once it is revealed that this is trouble, proceed with caution.

Why do we as people, hold on to what we know is not good for us. If it causes us more trouble than pleasure than is it really worth it? Is it because we are impatient and don't want to wait on the person who is destined to be in our lives? We should know that as long as we allow mr wrong to hold the place mr right, we will not have room for mr right when he appears. I heard once, that we should "keep folks where we meet folks, let God do the promoting". Meaning if we met him in the club, leave him in the club; if we met him in the mall, leave him in the mall; if we met him at the Waffle house, leave him at the Waffle house.

Do you know your purpose? Is the people in your life contributing to your purpose? If not, why are they there?